What to look for in a man? is a question I get at least once a day from a girl. If this is a question that rings in your mind day in and day out, let me explain. Ladies, if you have been through numerous unsuccessful relationships in your life, it is time that you realized that probably you are not dating the right kind of people. The first thing to do when wondering, “what to look for in a guy?”, is to find out who you are. It is crucial to know what you need in your life. Identify your needs, your likings and dis likings. Every girl is different and so are her needs, wants, desires and tastes. Go with what you feel is more appropriate for you heart, don’t settle for what looks nice, settle for what feels right.

The most important quality I would say that is most needed is integrity and faithfulness. A man who is honest with you, one who is faithful and one who has some values in life is a man you want. There’s nothing more appropriate for you heart than someone who really wants to love it and be honest with it. Seek for a man who is understanding. You don’t always have to like the same things in life or have the same ways at looking at situations, but if you can both appreciate each others differences and are willing to compromise, the relationship is much more likely to last.

Look for a man who is always trying to keep you happy, even when the situation is not in his favor. Someone who is strong enough to go over the rough weather with you. A man who knows how to keep his anger and ego in check, one that won’t make you second best. Look for a man who is confident. A man who is confident, one that can stand up for himself and believe in what he does, says and acts, is one that will always have your back and stand by your side. All of these are basic qualities, but they all play an important role as to where your future relationship will go. Look for a man who is loving, caring, honest, stable, compromising and most of all compatible with you. Do not settle for anything less, as you deserve nothing but the best. <3