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31 August 2010

What’s a healthy relationship?

There’s quite a few things that I (my opinion/views/perspectives) think a healthy relationship is.

  1. Arguments. Yeah, it can be a little bitchy at first, right? So the reason why this is part of a healthy relationship is because at the end of each argument, both of y’all learn to straighten out things, and clear out things. And plus, y’all are making the relationship stronger.
  2. Jealousy. So yeah. Once your partner is jealous, you know that person cares for you. That person does not want to lose you at all. So making your partner less jealous will make your relationship stronger.
  3. Worrying. This part, when your boyfriend/girlfriend worries about you, it means that person needs your attention, he/she wants to spend his/her time with you, because he wants to be happy, and he doesn’t want to lose you to some stupid niggah or some other girl. So, telling him/her not to worry will make things worse for the person that’s worrying, since he/she is going to suspect something.
  4. Loving. So yeah, loving a person, don’t ever hide this feeling. I know you guys might be lovey dovey in private, but there’s no reason to hide it in public, cos yeah. Don’t try to hide stuff if you really feel it to your girlfriend/boyfriend, because it’s not right to show your love in front of other people.
  5. Complimenting. Yeah, compliments are everywhere coming from everyone. You know when every other guy/girl compliments you, you deny it. But if it’s your boyfriend/girlfriend says it to you, please accept it, or have a little fun, you know? Like sure fight for it a bit, and like I know you guys are going to end up cuddling. But accepting it more than denying it is much better in a relationship, at least he tells you what he sees about you.
  6. Girls/Guys. So yeah, this is the hard thing. You can check out other people but, don’t make your girlfriend/boyfriend mad. Cos that shit is going to end up into a big fight. Stop checking out others that often. Just chill, you know? And like.. Instead of checking others out, then just check out each other, but not that much, so that you won’t get tired. Do it just to make your girlfriend/boyfriend jealous, but just one at a time, cos it shows that you’d rather go for others cos of their looks or their style than go with whatever you have.

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