Guys, girls really want you to ask them how their day went and they want you to ask them if everything’s okay and if you can do anything to make anything better when they’re down. If you sense there’s a problem, gather the courage to ask her. If she responds with a “Fine” or “It’s ok” and you can sense there’s still a problem, then they really want to talk. When girls pull the short answers out during a conversation it is because they want you to put the effort in to getting them to open up. They don’t want to feel as if they’re asking for your sympathy, they want it to be genuine. They want to feel that you really care for what they have to say, you gotta put some effort to let her know you really want to listen.

They want you to live your life as well and not have everything be about them. I mean it is normal for you to need your guy time, cause they want their space with their girls to. If you find the right balance, spending time with your friends will never be an issue as long as there is a balance and as long as they never feel that they mean more to you than her. Listen to this carefully, they want you to like their friends, not “Fall in love” with them. They want to bring you around so you can meet them and be chill but not to hang out with them personally. They don’t want you getting all comfortable with their friends because they’ll fear you wanting one of their friends more than them. Even though it won’t happen, girsl just over think. That’s why you should never pay more attention to another girl than you do to your girlfriend either, never comment over and over on how hot a girl looks.

Be smart, don’t make them feel forgotten or neglected, or like they’re not good enough. They don’t want to hear about how great your friends girlfriends are or how they’re different from her or how you would want her to change. They want to know that you can talk about them to your friends, just as your friends talk about their girls. I’ve learned that when you love someone, whatever you have to offer that person, they’ll offer it even 10 times more to you. If you love her, don’t wait for her to tell you things, or for her to tell you what she needs. Take it upon yourself to tell her how you feel, ask her things, remind her why she’s the love of your life. A simple gesture, will go a long way. She might forget what you said in the future, but she’ll always remember that one touch, that one moment when you showed your true self. <3