Why must you always ruin the moment by thinking about bad things? Like, in relationships.. You let your insecurities get the best of you. You’re always worrying about your relationship falling, and that’s just making you sad all the time. You waste your time with him/her anticipating something bad.. Why? Live in the present, enjoy it. Not everyone you love is going to leave you. Here you are, right here and now, and the person you love, loves you back. Let yourself be happy.