3 Things Relationships Tend to Lose:

In every relationship, the couple goes through a stage of complete bliss and happiness. There are no arguments and no awkward moments where one person isn’t trying to step on the others toes. Once that period ends, your true personalities show and determine if you two can make it work.

1. Communication: People forget that the one key thing you need to keep your relationship afloat is communication. If you’re confused about why he’s acting a certain way, or if you don’t understand why she keeps giving you the silent treatment, who are you going to ask? By constantly giving yourself scenarios and trying to decode your partner, you simply make the matters worse. So go straight to the source. Ask him/her what is bothering them to hopefully come together to work out a compromise or solution to make a change for the better. For me, love is a time of growth and experience with another person. It’s the most confusing and most passionate part of life all together.
2. Trust: Once you solidify your communication by opening up with each other and getting comfortable, you need to trust your partner and your partner needs to prove that they can be trusted. Simply put, trust is not given it is earned. Especially for people that are paranoid and had too many people that were not trustworthy in their life.
3. Space: Sometimes a person can feel smothered or trapped. We’re not all perfect and we want to surround ourselves with the things we love, but in order to keep both people happy there needs to be a healthy amount of space. Spend time together, but also make time apart to give your partner a chance to miss you. When you truly love someone and miss them, your heart grows even closer. Clingyness is not good.

Couples aren’t perfect, They have problems, too. Argument, disagreements, etc. Just because one problem pops up, it shouldn’t end the whole relationship. You should always try to get through it.